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恐婚也是一种心理疾病
发布时间:2011-04-08 11:54     来源:君健网

    亲子鉴定、婚姻合同、给私家车装GPS定位系统监控配偶以及婚姻“侦探”,导致婚姻的诚信度降低,而未婚同居等现象也使得青年人觉得婚姻没有那么神秘。因此,在这种社会环境下,真正做好心理准备走进婚姻的人就变得少起来。

    此外,在外界的压力下,很多“恐婚族”最终还是会走进“围城”,但是晚婚却会导致很多社会问题,如后代质量、婚姻传统、法律以及社会保险制度等等。害怕婚姻的人群在中国都市中并不是少数,而且他们的态度也越来越坚决。他们不是没有遇到爱情,而是对于“围城”的恐惧让他们在婚姻的殿堂外“望而却步”。

    他们被形象地称为“都市恐婚族”。恐婚族”恐惧婚姻的原因多种多样,有的害怕“围城”里面“柴米油盐酱醋茶”式的平淡生活会消磨掉婚前的浪漫,有的在面对日益高涨的“房价”和“婚价”时害怕不能保障对方的幸福,还有的则是对自己完全没有信心,觉得没有办法维持一段长久的关系,结婚是害人害己。

    “恐婚族”的出现不仅引起人们对于这群人自身心理健康的担忧,更让人们对于整个社会大环境产生了担忧。“恐婚族”的共性就是多思多虑,想得比较多,提前预支了很多未来才会产生的焦虑。事实上,恐婚也是一种心理疾病。“恐婚”甚至“不婚”不仅仅出现在中国。

    美国《纽约时报》1月17日报道,根据人口统计发现,2005年美国妇女有51%独自生活,没有配偶。在更追求个体的欧洲,不结婚已经被称为“软革命”。法国社会对于“只要爱情不要婚姻”,大多持宽容态度,因为“结婚不会带来任何东西,也不会拿走任何东西”。在日本,已经因为结婚率迅速下降而严重影响到人口增长。焦急的日本社会学家们奔走相告,呼吁年轻人的父母“压迫”子女去寻找另一半。

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